Just letting you know you can check out my latest article on Huffington Post in response to a “Relationship Expert” who says he has a “Cure” for Divorce.
I’m sick. And I didn’t even know it.
According to an article by Dr. David Wygant on Huffington Post, divorce can be as preventable as the common cold, and Dr. Wygant, relationship therapist and dating expert, has the “cure.”
Well, having been in a 12 year long marriage, I can relate to Dr. Wygant’s basic theory that couples can get into a “You-don’t-do-anything-for-me-so-I-won’t-do-anything-for-you” downward spiral. I myself was the queen of it. In fact, I reigned supreme. But I believe his theory over-simplifies the complexities involved in the decision to divorce.
His basic hypothesis suggests that if two people can come together, they can stay together. But what he doesn’t examine is whether or not they should stay together.
His article presumes that all people come together because they are mature, emotionally sound and ready to take “the plunge” (I’m sorry…I’m trying not to laugh…).
But what if two people come together for the wrong reasons?
CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL STORY ON HUFFINGTON POST! and tell me what you think.